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Women date men who make them feel
SAFE
Women date men who make them feel
SAFE
Relationship coaching for men who want to date women.
Be as safe a man as possible. Emotionally, physically, & sexually.
Relationship coaching for men
who want to date women.
Be as safe a man as possible.
Emotionally, physically, & sexually.
One-on-one profile review and feedback. Pictures, bio, prompt question/answers, and conversation-starting one-liners.
We will conduct a background check and social media audit to create a Red Flag Digital Profile. This profile can be shared with potential dates and will also be used in our one-on-one coaching sessions.
We will reach out to past partners and obtain raw, honest feedback to help identify areas of growth.
Meet with me one-on-one to work on your growth points in order to become as safe a man as possible for your next girlfriend or partner.
Women will not date you unless they feel safe
Most men aren’t aware of all the signals that are immediate red flags for women. Some of those signals might be in your dating profile RIGHT NOW!
But you can be different!
- Learn the 5 red flags women look for in men.
- Take ownership of your patterns, habits, and communication styles.
- Learn what women value in men.
- Get one-on-one support as you pursue intimacy and love!
- Become a safer man and experience better connections.
Don't just APPEAR safe. BE safe.
How to Work with Me
Free 15 Min Intro Call
We will get to know each other, and see if we are a good fit. We will also discuss what package is best for you.
Coaching
We will meet together to develop a plan and start working on your growth opportunities.
Find Connection
Even after you find someone, we can stay connected as long as you find my coaching valuable.
About Nate
Dating Coach for Men
Many men have a hard time approaching dating from the female gaze and struggle to understand why women reject them. As a non-binary person who is actively deconstructing his manhood, Nate has the unique perspective of experiential knowledge of the masculine experience while also a unique look into the female perspective. Mentored by real-life women, Nate is able to bring his wealth of knowledge and experience to bear on your dating struggles.
“A woman’s safety is more important than a man’s desire.”
- Nate Banker
Offerings
Dating Profile Audit - $50
One-on-one profile review and feedback. Pictures, bio, questions, and conversation-starting one-liners.
Add-on: A Woman’s Perspective +$200
Red Flag Research & Profile - $500
We will conduct a background check and social media audit to create a Red Flag profile. This profile can be shared with potential dates and used in our one-on-one coaching sessions.
Reverse Consult - $95
If your date wants to talk with us about you, you can pay for a session on her behalf.
Prior Relationship Surveys - $500
We will reach out to past partners and obtain raw, honest feedback to help identify areas of growth.
One-on-one Coaching - $95/session
Meet with me one-on-one to work on your growth points in order to become as safe a man as possible for your next girlfriend or partner.
Add-on: A woman’s perspective: +$150/session
FAQs
Our primary concern is for the safety of women. We are not willing to sanitize a profile as it would be misleading to women who may view it. But, don't worry! Women love to see men take ownership of their mistakes and show their areas of growth.
A woman’s perspective is simply more valuable and we want to pay them extremely well for their valuable time.
If we conduct a relationship survey on your behalf, all responses will remain anonymous for the safety and well-being of the participants.
For each session, we will meet over Zoom for 50 minutes. I will ask you questions and help you think through how you can be a safe man. If you have done a Red Flag Audit or Relationship Survey, I will use that information to help direct our sessions together.
This is a part-time job on top of a standard 9-5. All my sessions are available in the evening starting at 8:30 pm.
If she opts in, likely... yes. Our primary concern is for her safety. We may let her know that we are available as a resource for her if she ever feels unsafe. If we become aware of safety concerns, we will contact her immediately.
Anyone who has access to your Red Flag Profile can request a Reverse Consult on your dime. If you agree, we will meet with her.
Possibly. Her safety is more important than your desire to date her. By embracing that, you can show her that her safety is your number one priority.
I am not a therapist, counselor, or psychiatrist. I am a dating coach. I do not carry any official coaching license or certificate at this time.
Find Love by Becoming a Safer Man
It starts with a free 15 minute intro call